September 3, 2012

The Lord Our Final Destination !

One Sunday morning, a wealthy man sat in his balcony enjoying sunshine and his coffee when a little ant caught his eye which was going from one side to the other side of the balcony carrying a big leaf several times more than its size. 

The man watched it for more than an hour. He saw that the ant faced many impediments during its journey, paused, took a diversion and then continued towards destination. At one point the tiny creature came across a crack in the floor. It paused for a little while, analyzed and then laid the huge leaf over the crack, walked over the leaf, picked the leaf on the other side then continued its journey.

The man was captivated by the cleverness of the ant, one of God’s tiniest creatures. The incident left the man in awe and forced him to contemplate over the miracle of Creation. It showed the greatness of the Creator. In front of his eyes there was this tiny creature of God, lacking in size yet equipped with a brain to analyze, contemplate, reason, explore, discover and overcome. Along with all these capabilities, the man also noticed that this tiny creature shared some human shortcomings.The man saw about an hour later the creature had reached its destination–a tiny hole in the floor which was entrance to its underground dwelling. And it was at this point that the ant’s shortcoming that it shared with the man was revealed.

How could the ant carry into the tiny hole the large leaf that it had managed to carefully bring to the destination? It simply couldn’t! So the tiny creature, after all the painstaking and hard work, and exercising great skills, overcoming all the difficulties along the way, just left behind the large leaf and went home empty-handed.The ant had not thought about the end before it began its challenging journey and in the end the large leaf was nothing more than a burden to it. The creature had no option, but to leave it behind to reach its destination. The man learned a great lesson that day.

Isn’t that the truth about our lives? We worry about our family, we worry about our job, we worry about how to earn more money, we worry about where we should live– 5 bedroom or 6 bedroom house, what kind of vehicle to buy–a Mercedes or BMW or a Porsche, what kind of dresses to wear, all sorts of things, only to abandon all these things when we reach our destination–The Grave. We don’t realize in our life’s journey that these are just burdens that we are carrying with utmost care and fear of losing them, only to find that at the end they are useless and we can’t take them with us.

THERE HAS TO BE. CONTENTMENT AT SOME LEVEL IN LIFE. NOTHING EXCEPT THE NAME OF THE LORD SHALL GO ALONG TO THE FINAL DESTINATION.
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September 2, 2012

An Hour of Your Time!

A man came home from work late again, tired and irritated, to find his 5 year old son waiting for him at the door.
“Daddy, may I ask you a question?”
“Yeah, sure, what is it?” replied the man.
“Daddy, how much money do you make an hour?
“That’s none of your business! What makes you ask such a thing?” the man said angrily.
“I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?” pleaded the little boy.
“If you must know, I make $20.00 an hour.”
“Oh,” the little boy replied, head bowed. Looking up, he said, “Daddy, may I borrow $10.00 please?”

The father was furious. “If the only reason you wanted to know how much money I make is just so you can borrow some to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you’re being so selfish. I work long, hard hours everyday and don’t have time for such childish games.”

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even madder about the little boy’s questioning. How dare him ask such questions only to get some money.

After an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think he may have been a little hard on his son. Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $10.00, and he really didn’t ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy’s room and opened the door. “Are you asleep son?” he asked. “No daddy, I’m awake,” replied the boy.

“I’ve been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier,” said the man. “It’s been a long day and I took my aggravation out on you. Here’s that $10.00 you asked for.”

The little boy sat straight up, beaming. “Oh, thank you daddy!” he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow, he pulled out some more crumpled up bills. The man, seeing that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, then looked up at the man. “Why did you want more money if you already had some?” the father grumbled. “Because I didn’t have enough, but now I do,” the little boy replied.

“Daddy, I have $20.00 now. Can I buy an hour of your time?”
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Share some time with those who need you. They need our time more then we will ever know.
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September 1, 2012

Heaven And Hell

A holy man was having a conversation with the Lord one day and said, 'Lord, I would like to know what Heaven and Hell are like.'
 
The Lord led the holy man to two doors. He opened one of the doors and the holy man looked in. In the middle of the room was a large round table. In the middle of the table was a large pot of stew, which smelled delicious and made the holy man's mouth water. 

The people sitting around the table were thin and sickly. They appeared to be famished. They were holding spoons with very long handles that were strapped to their arms and each found it possible to reach into the pot of stew and take a spoonful. But because the handle was longer than their arms, they could not get the spoons back into their mouths. The holy man shuddered at the sight of their misery and suffering. 

The Lord said, 'You have seen Hell.'        
 
They went to the next room and opened the door. It was exactly the same as the first one.
There was the large round table with the large pot of stew which made the holy man's mouth water. The people were equipped with the same long-handled spoons, but here the people were well nourished and plump, laughing and talking. 

The holy man said, 'I don't understand.' 'It is simple,' said the Lord. 'It requires but one skill. You see they have learned to feed each other, while the greedy think only of themselves. The Lord said, 'This is Heaven.'    
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August 20, 2012

PRIDE, THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL


Out of the seven capital sins: pride, avarice, lust, anger, gluttony, envy and sloth, pride is one of the most profound of human weaknesses which takes the focus off of God and puts it on self. It is an attitude of self-worship and a self-important superiority of our mind that tells us we are better than, greater than, smarter than, wiser than, more knowledgeable than, more qualified than, more important than, more deserving than anyone else.

Pride hardens the mind and refuses to hear the wisdom of anyone. It is an acid that turns the finest fruit bitter. It is a superficial weed that grows in all soils, without need of water or care. It consumes and destroys every living thing that it overshadows. It is a swelling of the heart filled with ego and self-importance and raises us above others until we look down upon them. It is a cancer that rots the soul and blackens the soul, making it an ugly thing to behold even to the owner of that soul. A man infected with pride needs nothing, not even God. It throws up a wall between God and us, and rejects His help and guidance. It is the total inability to see beyond ourselves. It is a very ungodly and unholy attribute for a Christian to have and especially for a religious. 

Another major portion of this very prevalent sin of pride is enmity toward our fellowmen. It constantly brings contention, division and strife. The mind of a proud man seeks to construct everything in his internal world to offer up continual adoration and praise to the self, to the ego. He makes every man his enemy by opposing their intellects, opinions, works, wealth, talents and elevating himself above others and diminishing them. If others seem to excel more, he can find a way to depreciate that person or find fault. 

He is easily offended and holds grudges. He withholds forgiveness to keep another in his debt and to justify his injured feelings. He is not easily taught and he won’t change his mind to accept truths, because to do so imply he has been wrong. He does not receive advice or correction easily and always says, “My way is right, no other way is right.”

God hates pride because it separates us from Him. It quenches His Spirit in us and prevents His Life in our hearts from flowing out into our lives. It builds walls between God and us, and that is the reason Satan revels in the proud. He will do anything he can to get us to trade in our humility and intimate relationship with Christ for pride and intellectual knowledge of Him.

We know from the history that pride is the downfall of angels, kings, priests, generals, soldiers, lovers, and men in high places falling headlong into the abyss of sin. The scriptures abound with evidences of the severe consequences of the sin of pride to individuals, groups, cities, and nations.

The angel Lucifer (Satan's original name) was cast from heaven because of his pride. He was transformed from an angel of light to an angel of darkness due to his pride. Pride was the sin of Adam and Eve who disobeyed God and wanted to become like him. It destroyed the Nephite nation and the city of Sodom. Pride brought on the confusion of tongues at the Tower of Babel; pride brought defeat to Pharaoh and to Goliath; pride reduced Nebuchadnezzar to the condition of an animal; Saul became an enemy to David through pride.  King Noah was about to free the prophet Abinadi, but an appeal to his pride by his wicked priests sent Abinadi to the flames. Herod sorrowed at the request of his wife to behead John the Baptist.  His death resulted because he gave not God the glory. He prided himself equal to God and the Lord smote him. Pride drew Christ's divine criticism upon the Pharisees and the Scribes.

Only insecure people love human applause. They have to make sure that everybody knows what they have accomplished and from where they have come. They get their identity in being promoted, but they forget that promotion comes from God. They take great pride in driving the right kind of car, keeping an expensive mobile, living in the right kind of house and office. They wear designer clothes and show themselves that they have been born with a silver spoon in their month and they are from rich and respected families. They feel proud of their accomplishments and their identity.

Consider the emptiness of created things. How empty is fame, how empty is praise, how empty the little satisfactions we get from boast­ing and criticizing. Remember that we came from nothing, we are nothing, and we can do nothing, except in so far as God helps us.                          

If anyone has a right to be proud, it must be God. After all, He created the world without any help from us. He Himself is uncreated, eternal, and utterly faultless. If we think there is a problem with God, we are just showing our ignorance. He Himself dwells in unapproachable light, He is mighty, glorious and perfect in beauty and splendour, all-knowing - no one and nothing can compare to Him. He is the only One qualified to be proud. And yet, He is humble.

We all must have seen the movie, "King of Kings." Produced years ago by Cecil De Mille. One of the most interesting parts of the play is that which pictures Mary Magdalene meeting our Lord for the first time. She came to Christ - a sinner; she left - a saint. She came - proud, sensual, and vain; she left­ - humble and mortified. She came - guilty; she left - forgiven. It was intensely interesting to see how this change took place.


Christ merely looks at Mary, looks into her very soul. And that look of our Lord softens her proud heart. She draws back some distance. She cannot bear that sad, loving look. The struggle in her soul is clearly shown in the picture. Each in its turn, the seven deadly sins come in the guise of devils and whisper into the ear of Magdalene. Each in turn is repulsed by her, as she drinks in grace from the gaze of Christ. The devil of pride and the devil of avarice, together with the devils of lust, anger, gluttony, envy and sloth, are firmly brushed aside. Finally Mary is free of her old tempters. In shame she drops her head. In modesty she covers her half­-nude body. She rushes to Christ and falls at His feet. There she secures the forgiveness for which her entire being is crying out.

Like Mary Magdalene, we also are affected and enslaved by at least some if not all of these same death-dealing devils, the seven capital sins. It is not our privilege to look into the physical face of Jesus, as she did. Never­theless, we can go before Christ present in the tabernacle and by faith look into His face as He looks into our hearts and ask him to give us power to fight against the sin of pride which is our greatest enemy - the root of all that is evil, and the failure of all that is good.

May Christ's humility drive out our pride, as His love and grace drove pride from the heart of Mary Magdalene.

August 16, 2012

REPAY NO ONE EVIL FOR EVIL


There are no good or bad emotion, what makes them either good or bad is the way that they are used. That is especially true in the case of anger. Anger can save our life in time of crisis but if left unchecked, it can also bring a world of misery.

Anger usually happens when a person feels not in complete control or situation. The feeling of anger kicks in an effort to meeting personal resources that would otherwise not be available. In other words, anger is produced by a feeling of weakness and not by a feeling of strength. Sadly, that is not how it is sometimes perceived.

In some circles, the tendency to get angry is viewed as a sign of character, strength and power. Nothing could be further from the truth. Strong people are not disposed to anger because they are very rarely in situations where they see themselves helpless so there is no need for anger. Most mature people will see anger as a sign of personal weakness therefore will try to avoid it at all cost.

It should also be noted that anger robs a person of a great portion of the ability to think clearly and rationally. It is also well known that the angrier a person becomes, the more irrational will be the behaviour.

There is a desire deep within each of us to dominate, to defeat other men and women, to use them as means for achieving our own selfish purposes and this selfish desire gives birth to anger and revenge. In the face of selfish desire, what comes immediately to our mind is to destroy the one who is the obstacle in getting his selfish desire fulfilled. Take example from our daily life and living, if we have a problem with pests, we kill them; and when we have problems with dogs, we kill them too. 


Such an attitude also prevails when we deal with difficult people in our lives.  When someone stands in our way of getting what we want, or is a challenge to live with, we seek to remove that person from our lives.  Indeed, that is how most people react to evil or inconveniences in their lives.  We adopt an apocalyptic mentality of solving problems by destruction. That is what Pharisees did with Jesus and hung him on the cross to fulfill their selfish desires.

We are all set to hurt people like we were hurt. We talk about getting even, and settling the score. The idea is that because they hurt us we now owe them some hurt in return. And that is one debt we are only too glad to settle. In fact, usually it is not enough to “get even”. We usually want to add just a little more. Like playing poker: I see your insult and I raise you a poke in the eye! I see your humiliation and I am happy about it. Sometimes we go to that extent persuading a person where he desires to end his life by committing suicide due to constant humiliation and harassment, and we are happy about that.

We do not look into ourselves that how stupid we had been in the past and how we hurt and abused so many innocent people and superiors who made our life and raised our dignity to such an extend where we enjoy saying I am not a riff-raff.

We read Bible and reflect every day where it is written, “Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honourable in the sight of all”. Live peaceably with all. Remember the words of Jesus, “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (Romans 12:17-21)

We are to answer evil with good. Everybody understands tit for tat. That is the way the world works. But they have a really hard time with paying back evil with good. It makes their conscience burn. It drives them to rethink their approach because it is not producing what they expected. That is the way to overcome evil. Not by fighting it. Not by punishing it.

 Not by stamping it out. But by overpowering it with kindness and generosity until it can no longer breathe. Remember, we hurt ourselves by hating others. Hating people is like burning down our own house to get rid of a rat. The fire of hate compressed within our heart would soon burn fiercer and burst into flames consuming not only our own selves but also consuming the world. Some say that the world will end in fire, others say in ice, but after knowing what hate has done so far between races, nations and communities, we can also say that the world could end by hate.

We hurt ourselves by contemplating on revenge because, by doing so, we keep our wounds green which otherwise could heal. In any case, can blood be washed with blood and can injury repair injury? Of course, it is human to strive to get even with an enemy, but it is Christian to forgive, for we are all children of God who loves both the good and the bad without any discrimination. Jesus always practiced what he preached and taught us, and this is true also of his call that we love our enemies.

Once a sparrow fell in love with a white rose, but the rose said to the bird, "Unless I am turned into red, I will not be able to love you". The sparrow, now lost in deep thought, wondered and searched hard for means to turn the white rose into red. At dawn the next day, the sparrow was struck with the bright idea of pricking itself with a thorn and letting its blood flow on the rose. Having accomplished its loving task, when the rose had turned red, the sparrow breathed its last, nestling close to the rose. This is how Jesus loved us, shedding his blood for his enemies.

Hence, love even our enemies, not because it will drive the enemy nuts, but because those who deserve love least, need it most. Hate not our enemies, life is too short for hate; and think of no revenge, and if we want to take any revenge at all, remember that the noblest revenge is to forgive. Don’t do evil just because someone did evil to us. They did the wrong thing. We do the right thing.  That is exactly what Jesus is asking us to do.

Remember, anger is like a match stick which has a head but not a brain which can burn the entire forest in no time. Let us be like an ice and cotton which is cold and soft. A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger (Prov 15:1). In your anger do not sin; when you are on your beds, search your hearts and be silent (Ps 4:4). It is to a man's honour to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel (Prov 20:3). Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil.(Ps 37:8) Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare(Prov.22:24-25).

The power to forgive is one of the greatest powers given to us. It is part of the nature and essence of God, and when we exercise it we assume godlike stature. We have the power to forgive and thus rise above the pettiness of souls. Choosing to forgive another is one of the hardest things most people ever do because it is not human nature. Human nature cries out for revenge and retribution. But why get stuck in human nature?

Jesus came to bring forgiveness and salvation from sin, but He also came to save us from human nature. When we received Him as our Savior, we received a measure of His superhuman nature. Since one of the most outstanding traits of His nature is a readiness to forgive, how quick we are to forgive others is a pretty good indication of whether or not we are letting His superhuman nature take charge.

Whether that person who wronged us deserves forgiveness or not is not the central issue. The central issue is we doing the right thing. No one really deserves forgiveness. If others have done wrong, they deserve a just punishment. But forgiveness is greater than justice. Justice is human; forgiveness is divine. Forgive others who have wronged us, even as our heavenly Father forgives us.